Introducing Owen Richard Calhoun

We added a new member to our family today. . . Owen Richard Calhoun. Contractions started at about 6 am, although my stubborn self did not recognize them as the real thing until about 8 am. I was dressed and ready to go to work, but luckily, my wonderful hubby decided not to risk it and took the kids to school. In the midst of his travels, I called him to let him know that we definitely needed to think about going to the hospital when he got back. Headed to the hospital at about 8:30 am, checked in at 9 am and was 7-8 cm when we got there. I almost missed out on getting an epidural and knew I was in trouble when the nurse asked if I was going natural. Now having done that before, that was not a mistake I wanted to make again. It took almost an hour to get the anesthesiologist to come by and by then I was probably at about 8-9 cm. I just kept thinking, "I do not want to do this unmedicated again." For those who know my husband, he likes to describe the last time when he claims my eyes rolled into the back of my head and I looked like the exorcist chick, but enough of that.

So with my nice epidural, I proceeded to push Baby Owen out in about 10 minutes and our family became a family of five at 11 am when Owen entered this world weighing a hefty 8 lbs and 9 ounces--I am sure the product of my chocolate addiction.  Unfortunately, with my speedy delivery, my mom missed it again. She and Sherry arrived about an hour after Owen entered this world.  The girls came by this evening and loved on Baby Owen. Katelyn's natural motherly instincts took over and she started kissing on him and singing him lullabies. They both got right up in the bed with him and loved all over him. All is going well and we expect to be home on Wednesday sometime.

Baby Owen

Daddy and Owen

Mommy and Owen

Big Sister Ellie

Katelyn loving on Owen

The new Calhoun Family

One week left

Is it possible that I really only have one week left as a family of four? I feel like these last 9 months have really flown. We are excited about our upcoming new arrival, but with him comes a new way of life. . . more kids than adults. . . we lose the divide and conquer. . .sleepless nights, diapers, living with someone who is dependent on you 24 hours a day. Wow. Is it possible that I had forgotten all that stuff?  On the upside, Katelyn and Ellie also gain a little brother. Now the poor thing may become part of their beauty salon or be dressed up as a princess, but he will receive overwhelming love from his big sisters and will be trained in the ways of women. Ellie is excited to be both a Big Sister AND and a Little Sister. The room is ready and so are we!!!!!!!!! I plan to finish out work on Tuesday, hopefully have a few days to myself this week, and then am prepared for the arrival of Baby Boy Calhoun next weekend. Keep us all in your prayers over the next week that we have a safe delivery and healthy baby boy.

Katelyn's last soccer game

Saturday was the last soccer game of the season. The Ladybugs took the field with only four girls so they all got to play the entire game and everybody had the chance to play goalie. Katelyn scored a goal and protected the goal during her rotation so that no one scored. She was exhausted at the end, but had a good time.

How I got into this mess

We were at a friend's birthday party last weekend and one of their friends was taking funny photos. I think this one speaks to how I got myself into this mess :)

My Princesses

Last night I had two little princesses trick-or-treating. They have been talking about their costumes and Halloween for two months and were so excited to finally get to premier as Belle and Cinderella. I was expecting my mom and step-dad to come in for the weekend to visit and enjoy Halloween with us and was pleasantly surprised to find out that my Aunt Joyce and cousin Allison came in Larry's place. It was an impromptu girls weekend with LOTS of Chocolate and fun.

Making Cupcakes with Grandma

Ellie debuting as Cinderella

Katelyn as Princess Belle. Notice the brown curls.

My first chaperone trip

Katelyn's class took a trip to Gentry Farm today. It was my first opportunity to chaperone. The kids had a great time despite the rain. We had to eat lunch in the back of my van, but they thought it was fun anyway. All three kindergarten classes went on the trip with a ton of moms and two dads.

Pumpkin Carving

The girls have been asking for weeks when we would carve our pumpkins, so today we ventured into the world of Pumpkin carving. The girls loved putting their hands in the ooey gooey mess, especially Katelyn, and Ellie focused on picking out all the seeds from the mess. With daddy's help, they made a decent looking Jack-O-Lantern face.

Cheer Girl

Last Friday night Katelyn had the opportunity to be a Cheer Girl at a CPA football game. She talked about it for weeks. Despite the cold, she did a fabulous job and was super enthusiastic, especially with her kicks. Check out her in the video. She is near the end on the left first row.

Betty Crocker

Found this picture on my camera today of Ellie cleaning up after making me brownies for my birthday.

Cross Point Fair at Owen Farm

Yesterday was a beautiful day! Our family took advantage of the beautiful weather to attend Cross Point's Fair at Owen Farm. The girls had a blast. The day included a Corn Maze, Super long slide, a sandbox filled with corn that the girls tried to bury themselves in, inflatables, petting zoo, pumpkin patch, snow cones, smores, fall treats, etc. Lots of kids and fun!!!!! We really enjoyed the family time.

Corn Sandbox

Milkin a cow

Duck races

Finishing the corn maze

Taking a break in the corn maze

My health manager

Not sure what they are teaching Ellie at school lately, but she is obsessed with healthy foods. Alan bought some ice cream before he left and I have been tempted to just toss it because I cannot control myself with it in the house. While pregnant with Katelyn I gained 13 pounds in one month due to ice cream overload. So I decided we would try to finish the ice cream off as a family tonight and get rid of it. While Katelyn was practicing soccer, Ellie and I went on a walk. When I mentioned dessert for the night, thinking she'd be excited, she paused and informed me that she couldn't have ice cream because "I eat healthy now." What? A 3 year old turning down ice cream. That was followed by, is cake healthy. However, after a little more thought, she informed me that we could have ice cream and that we would start being healthy tomorrow. Rationalizing her ice cream at 3--what is in store for her at 20? And I must say, the ice cream was delicious.

The room is almost done--All boy

We finished the touch ups tonight, so the room is boy. Boy Blue with lots of sports. All that is left is to find some matching wall decor. The girls love it. Now we just have to wait for the baby. I had an appointment on Thursday and all looks good. We have 7 weeks left after tomorrow. On some days I feel like I have been pregnant forever, but then on others, it seems to be just flying by. My favorite part of the day is in the evenings when I am winding down and he starts moving all over the place. I think the hustle and bustle of the day rocks him to sleep, but the quiet and calm of the evening wakes him up.

Katelyn helping us paint. We let her use one of her small watercolor brushes.

The girls taking a break to just laugh and play.

Playing in the rain over the last two weeks.

A Future Doctor?

After our various plans were cancelled today due to rain, we finally ended up at the Adventure Science Museum with a friend of Ellie's. The kids had a ball running around the play area--for a pregnant lady, they are hard to keep up with. The cutest was the Body questions area where they put on their white coats and operated on a patient. They were super intent, asking questions and trying to find a cure.

Butterflies

We had our own little science experiment at the Calhoun house with butterflies. About 2-3 weeks ago we received our caterpillars in the mail. They were about a half inch long. In about a week, they doubled in size and soon migrated to the top of the jar and turned into chrysalis. We moved them into their net house where they hung from the top for about a week and finally hatched this weekend. We ended up with about 8 or 9 painted lady butterflies. We released them tonight into our little garden. The girls thought it was super cool. Katelyn even coaxed some of them out on a flower. I highly recommend the butterflies as a learning game for all kids. Ours loved watching them grow from little caterpillars to longer caterpillars and finally to butterflies.

Go CPA!

We went to our first CPA game of the year last night. Our poor Lions had an 0-3 record going in to the game. The girls decided to wear their cheer girl uniforms and do some cheering. They had a wonderful time. I think Ellie may be a sports commentator or something. She chattered incessantly and asked a zillion questions, "Why are we cheering, what happened to that guy, who has the ball, why is he down, how much time, . . . . . and on and on and on." If I didn't immediately respond, I received a persistent tug on my arm until I answered her. It reminded me of when my mom use to tell me how I was always saying, "Why this and Why that." My favorite though was when I let out a little groan on a fumble and Ellie responded, "It's o.k. mommy. We can cheer for both teams. It's o.k." in her sweetest little supportive voice.

Katelyn had a great time running around with her friends from school. She hung out most of the night with a little boy from her class. It was almost a glimpse of what's to come. I could visualize them 12 years from now sitting on the same bleachers together cheering for their team. It is one reason I love the school so much. It is a community that comes together--with kids K-12 running around and having a great time. Of course the kids crashed on the way home. By the way, we WON. Yeah CPA.

Getting ready for the game

Tuckered out afterwards

Counting my blessings

I find it so easy to get swept up in the day and never really pause to realize how truly blessed we are. This morning we had a chapel at school with three speakers talking about their experiences in Africa and the poverty and hardship they witnessed. One is prepared to adopt two little boys from Africa. We were challenged to make that difference, to see the impact that we can make even if it is just on one person, to face what real hunger looks like--not just a little rumble in our tummy. And yet even after that chapel, I went about my day without feeling the weight of the words--without counting my blessings and realizing how truly blessed I am to have the life I have--with an abundance of food, good health and shelter. I was short with my kids and feeling quite pregnant and tired.

It took my 3 year old's words of wisdom as she spoke of how beautiful everything was on our walk--the true joy I saw in her eyes and smile from a simple walk with her mama--to take the time to sit down on the path (she was tired) and appreciate the beauty of God's creation.

And then I left the path and re-entered my world of overabundance and returned to my cranky self. It was only this evening as I was reading the blog of a 20 year old girl serving in Uganda that is so sure of herself and her faith as she described her days ministering to the poor that I truly stopped for some introspection.

I encourage you to check out her blog www.kissesfromkatie.blogspot.com. It is listed to the right as The Journey. But the entry that caused me to really pause and appreciate my family and what we have is http://kissesfromkatie.blogspot.com/2009/08/be-warned-i-always-re-read-things.html

To be able to visualize the number of kids out there with no parents who love them and nothing to eat is heartbreaking. It made me go in and hug my kids that much harder. Sure they whine and can be stubborn and don't listen, but they are mine to love all the more and I wouldn't trade them for the world.

Soccer Season starts up

Saturday was the first day of Katelyn's new soccer season. Her team from last year folded. The coach's daughter had no interest in the game, so it was probably for the best. Katelyn and another teammate were moved over to a new team. We are excited that we got our first choice because the coach lives down the street from us with his daughter who is on the team and another teammate lives in the cul de sac across from us. This team is a huge difference over last year's. All the girls are genuinely interested in playing and want to be out there.

Katelyn's first time out was a bit of humor. She was so excited that she dribbled the ball to the OPPOSITE goal and one of her teammates promptly put it in for the other team. However, after that she got into her groove and was very into the game. Although she didn't score, she played well and seemed to have a very good time. Their team won their first game 5-4. They were all full of high fives, etc. after each goal which she was loving. Next week she wants to try goalie. We'll see how that goes.

Ellie, as always, was the supportive sister from the sidelines along with Aunt Sherry.

First Day of School

Katelyn started her first day of school today at CPA. She has been looking forward to it all week. Two of the teachers in my high school also have girls starting kindergarten this year and will be in her class. Katelyn only had a half day today (with only five girls) and then goes back on Friday for a half day with all of her class. Next week, she goes for a half day all week before getting into full days the next week. I need to talk to my boss about this half day business and see if we can get some in the high school too :) She came home today wanting to go back tomorrow all day--which is a good sign.

After school today, she had a Daddy Day. They had lunch on the run and then went to Nashville Shores. Overall, a very successful day! Is is possible that I actually have a kindergarten student? Wow--where did the time go?

My two little angels

Katelyn's the bride and Ellie is her flower girl. How angelic. I wish I could bottle their innocence.

I have an official Bike Rider

With the help of a neighbor, Katelyn has learned to ride her bike. Though still a little wobbly, she can go down the cul de sac and back without falling. We're hoping to get her on the greenway this weekend and see how far she can go. She is so proud of herself.

Girls Day Out

When I was a little girl, my mom always took a day off of work a week or two before school started and just spent it with me and then Sherry doing Back-to-School shopping. I am sure she had no idea how much it impacted me, but I always cherished that time of year and was so excited to spend the day with Mom in anticipation of school starting. So when I had my own kids, I knew that we would make a day of it.

I have actually been looking forward to my day with Katelyn for weeks. We spent the day shopping for some back to school clothes--which she doesn't really need because she has a set uniform to wear, but I let her pick out a couple of outfits anyway, because every girl needs to start the year with some special clothes they pick out themselves. We bought some school supplies for home when she has homework (at school supplies are part of tuition) and had a fun little lunch at McDonald's Playland. Overall, a success I believe. She was on her best behavior and it was a good start to our family's tradition. I am still in shock that this teeny child I birthed five years ago is now ready to go to kindergarten. Where did the time go?

Vacation Recap

I know I am late on this, but wanted to post a couple of pics from our trip. We had an amazing time. Alan and I enjoyed our three nights away at the Buttermilk Inn and Spa in the Hudson River Valley, New York. It was so nice just to get away--the two of us. The photos show the front of the inn and the view of the river from the outside patio.

Then on to Pennsylvania to meet up with the kids. They had a ball. They went tubing on the lake out back from the grandparents. The girls LOVED it. Katelyn kept yelling, faster, faster, faster. Ellie even rode the tube with Alan.

The girls went blueberry picking with their Boston cousins, went bumper-boating with their Pennsylvania cousin and went to camp and rode horses. Overall a great trip.